Does Your Ex Still Love You?

It is normal to wonder if your ex still thinks about when you are trying to get them back.  After all, no one likes to be rejected twice and if you are going to make your move then it is nice to know the door is still open.  Here are some things to look for that might indicate your ex still has you on their radar.  The more you occupy their thoughts the better chance you have of reuniting.

Questions
One of the easiest ways to tell your ex is still interested is when they constantly ask questions about.  They need to know what you are doing and who you are doing it with.  They may not come right out and ask you directly, but they will use your friends to find out everything they need to know.  If you see this happening then the ball is definitely in your court.  Don’t make them suffer for too long because your never know when the flames will die out.  Walk right up to them and start talking.  Things should move naturally from there.

Coincidences
If you have noticed that your ex just happens to be at every social function as you then it may be more than just a coincidence.  Showing up at places you know an old lover will be is a classic technique for trying to get back together.  No matter where they show up, they will probably try to pass it off as just a chance encounter.  This may be true the first time, but if it happens repeatedly then you have a pattern.  Go with the flow instead of calling them out on their tactics.  You don’t want to embarrass them and spoil the moment.

Availability
When people like you they will go out of their way to be around you.  This is a good way to measure how much your ex is still in love.  If you are still playing the friends role, try asking them to do a couple things that you know will create a conflict for them.  If they are willing to drop everything to be with you then there is still plenty of passion in the air.  Of course don’t get discouraged if they pass on a couple of opportunities.  Some things like work and school need to be dealt with.  It is when they overlook you for their friends that could spell a problem.

Most people want to know if their ex is still interested in them before they try to patch up their old relationship.  This is understandable, but you may never know for sure until you get closer to them.  That being said, you can still look for the signs in this article to give you a better idea.  At some point you will have to take a risk, but you might be able to save some face by measuring their interest before you jump in.

Now you need to ask yourself...Are YOU Still in Love with Your Ex?