The 3 Most Important Steps to Getting Your Ex Back

Posted by Elliot on May 22, 2012

It can be easy to get swallowed by feelings of panic and desperation after a break up. Your mind is racing in a million different directions and you're not really sure what to do or who you should listen to.

But before you do something dumb to push your ex farther away, follow these three simple steps to gain control of yourself and the situation...

Step 1: Stop
All of this drama and confusion makes it impossible to think clearly. This is why you simply need to stop everything for at least one day. Hide in your room... call into work... whatever it takes! Spend one day collecting your thoughts and allow yourself time to recover from the initial shock. This is not an excuse to be depressed! It is simply a timeout for relaxation and reflection. Use it to prepare yourself for the coming days when you'll have to face the world and your future.

Step 2: No Ex…for now
Most people think the best way to get your ex back is to keep calling them and saying how much you miss them, love them, etc. The problem is, chasing your ex right after a breakup often makes them want to run even farther away. Keep in mind they left you for a reason and these feelings aren't going to change over a tearful apology. So don’t give into the temptation to contact your ex just yet. Give each other some space and move onto the third step.

Step 3: Plan Your Strategy
This is the most important step in getting your ex back. Too many people are over-confident in their abilities to win back a lover. They randomly call their ex, send flowers, and even show up at their doorstep. All of these ideas fall short because in reality they are just another way of saying “I’m Sorry” or “I Love You”. These words may be true, but they don't fix what is broken.

Focus on techniques that generate curiosity and then attraction from your ex. Get this part right and you can overcome even the toughest obstacles to getting back together with your true love.

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