Full Review: The Magic of Making Up

Released in spring of 2008, this resource caught our attention for its creative approach to saving troubled relationships.  The author, T.W. Jackson, does not claim to be a professional therapist, but he definitely has some great insights on why relationships fail and how to fix them.  Reading through his book you are sure to experience a few “light bulb moments” where you think of ways to connect his ideas to your own situation.

Coffee Talk
One of the things we like most about this book is the way it reads.  It feels like you are having a cup of coffee with T.W. as he explains the ins and outs of love and relationships.  Instead of using a textbook approach with big words and no emotion, The Magic of Making Up is more like a mentoring session.  Picture it as sitting down for dinner with your own personal relationship coach.

The Strategy
The first part of this book covers the important parts of a successful relationship.  The difference between what men and women need to feel wanted, and what makes them ultimately give up on their partner.  The focus then changes to your unique circumstance and how to identify exactly why your ex left you.

The heart of T.W.’s book is his strategies for rebuilding the attraction and romance with your ex.  There are several psychological tactics he shares to get your ex to start thinking about you again.  Some involve the way you communicate with them, while others are designed to give you the confidence you need to succeed.

The full plan takes you through the entire of process of getting back together.  From calling them for the first time, to dating again, and all the ways to keep things moving in the right direction.  One of the best chapters covers everything you need to know about your first date back together.  You learn how to ask them out, what to talk about, and how to make a lasting impression.

Overall
This is a great resource for those who want to get back with their ex, but have no idea where to start.  In order to fix a break up you need to gain a mental advantage over your ex.  Not because you want to trick them into loving you, but because you need to get past the negative associations they have about your relationship.  The Magic of Making Up will help you clear these hurdles and T.W.’s lessons on the needs of men and women will keep you from making the same mistakes in the future.

Also See:

How to Get Back Your Ex by Brian Caniglia